I Want Him Back.

Question

Some months back, i ended a relationship with a man
that we've been seeing each other for three years.

We met not long after my separation from my husband
and i must confess that he really came handy as regard
helping me to deal with the trauma of my divorce.

He is married but ready to make me his second wife.I
told him since he is still married to his first wife
legally the second marriage will be a sham.

Out of frustration i ended the relationship thinking
that he will so devastated and come to my terms as regards
the marriage issue.

To my surprise he accepted the break up though with heavy
heart. He went to his wife to mend things and started a
relationship afresh, it was then i realized have committed
a blunder.

I got in touch with him but he does not want me back. I'm
really heart-broken and do not know how to cope with this
second rejection in my life.

Answer
Unfortunately, you were the one who first dumped the man
that you confessed helped you during a critical time.

Being a gentle man he respected your wish and moved on with
his life.

You need to accept the fact that this relationship is over
and done with. Have nothing to do with your ex-lover, don't
ever allow his thought to enter your mind.

As long as you feel hurt and wounded, you are unlikely to be
able to establish a loving relationship with any man.

Time they say heals a broken heart. With time you will find
yourself ready for that day when someone you can love again
comes along.

The lesson here is that when next you give an ultimatum, you
must be prepared for it backfiring.