This Girl Is Like A Man

Question

I am a 34years old man dating a 29years old lady. We plan to
get married soon but her character has been a thing of concern.

initially, I thought I could change her but all efforts to do so
proved abortive. The problem is that she is more of a man than a
woman in terms of her disposition. She lacks emotion and has a
nonchalant attitude. Most importantly, She is a final year student
in the university but her spoken english is horrible. She is
obedient, honest and faithful.

I love this girl but can she give me the happiness i craved for in
marriage as i have told her many times to change this negative
aspect of hers?


Answer

Think about this......
will you be able to cope with her 3,4,or 5years into your marriage?
Your next answer to this will determine the next step to take.

Remember this that getting married to someone means accepting in
totality whatever good, bad, or ugly virtures/vices you both possess.
Bear in mind that whatever you can not tolerate while in courtship
should not be overlooked in marriage.I have seen marriages collapse
to some irreconcilable differences, which should have been sorted
out during courtship.

There is nothing like 'patch patch' courtship. If you know you cant
cope with certain issues, throw in the towel set sentiment apart.

If she is ready to learn and improve on whatever you complain about,
you can go ahead and marry her. But if the opposite is the case, then
you need a re-think.