He Is Too Busy For Love

He Is Too Busy For Love

Question

I am dating a young,handsome and caring man who
work in one of the financial institutions.
Though we are planning to get married very soon,
he is too busy to have have for me! He works around the clock even on weekends.

There are times i go to his house to spend sometime with him but i don't get see him until late in the night and when he comes home he is so tired that after eating if he manage to taste anything i cook he goes to the bed. It is so bad that the last thing on his mind is making love. Even when i initiate, it he tells he is too tired.

It is obvious that he loves me because i do not lack anything materially, he showers me with gift. I must say he is a very generous young man but we do not spend quality time together.

Answer

My take on this is to advise you to be a bit more patient with the young man. Tolerance is important.
He is still young and has all the energy to work. You are lucky he has all the quality an ideal man should have and you have found him wanting when it comes to infidelity.

I am sure with time he will get less busy and have time to spend with you. Don't nag and stress him, just allow him to have peace when you are together. With his kind of job it will be unfair to do otherwise.

Talk to him once in a while about the need to have time for you. Be the one to invite him out.